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Alix Mitchell, Author at Fetch for Me, Human
Help Australia and Save the Koalas

Help Australia and Save the Koalas

I’ve never been to Australia, nor do I have any ties to Australia. Truthfully, I think that’s the case for many of us here in the United States impacted by what’s happening in Australia. You don’t have to have been there or have any ties there for their current states of affairs to weigh heavily on you.

 Australia is experiencing literal hell on earth. They are currently experiencing the worst bushfires they’ve seen in decades.

 Here are some of the horrible statistics:

  • Almost 30 people have died, including several volunteer firefighters
  • Over 2,000 homes have been destroyed.
  • In December 2019 in Sydney, the smoke in the air was so bad that it was considered 11 times the hazardous levels.
  • Half a billion animals have been affected, and likely millions are dead.
  • About 1/3 of the koalas in New South Wales have been killed, and 1/3 of their habitat has been destroyed.
  • There will likely be species of birds and frogs become extinct due to this.

 The United States, Canada, and New Zealand have sent in about 2,000 firefighters to help.

 Australia is receiving about $2 billion from the Morrison Administration to help rebuild the infrastructure, and the prime minister has said $4,200 will go to each volunteer firefighter battling for over 10 days. There is some other compensation for them, but let’s just think about that for a minute. They are leaving their country, their family, and their day job that pays the bills to help fight these fires.

 Australia experiences a fire season every year, but these fires are at whole different level. The worst part is – they are likely made worse by humans. New South Wales police have taken legal action against 183 people for arson since November. Then, there’s the destruction that we are all contributing to – climate change. These fires are absolutely made worse from the persistent heat and drought Australia has been experiencing, which is heavily influenced by climate change.

 While all of Australia is suffering – from the tiniest amphibians to entire families – the impact this is having on the koala does stand out. While birds can fly away and kangaroos can hop quickly, koalas are slow, seek height for protection, and thrive on eucalytpus trees. Unfortunately, the eucalyptus trees contain so much oil which can ignite into an explosion – killing the koalas in its wake.

 Organizations like Rescue Craft Co were asking for crafters to make and donate items to help the wildlife – like koala mittens for their burned hands, joey hanging pouches, etc. The good news is most of these organizations have been flooded with these handmade items and are now simply requesting money donations to aid the wildlife, firefighters, and victims.

Many articles point to the fact that the fires will only get worse with the hotter days ahead. Australia’s agriculture and tourism industries have been completely destroyed by these fires, and their economy will likely not be the same.




I opened a handmade store!

Something you may not know is that I’ve been wanting to create a homemade, functional dog gear shop for the active yet reactive dog. So what the heck does that mean? Basically – I want to make bandanas and leash wraps (and other things coming in the future) that make traveling and hiking with your reactive dog easier! They will be cute but functional items that have personalization with things like “I Need Space,” “Back Off,” “Ignore Me,” etc. 

I was going to launch this shop with those items, but then news of Australia broke out. I have always been a “tree hugger” or “environmentalist” at heart, plus the world’s bigget animal lover, so this is seriously killing me. I can’t even fathom living there right now. 

So I figured – the best way to launch a new store and a new product is by first helping others. So, I found some adorable koala bandana fabric, and here we are! I’m going to donate 50% of all of my sales to WIRES. You can read more about WIRES here, but they are the largest wildlife rescue organization in Australia. 

All of my bandanas are handmade by me in Winchester, Virginia. These koala bandanas have the koala print on the front with a plain black backing. They slip onto the collar, so they will easily fit any size/any dog. They’re 100% cotton and can be machine washed on cold or hand washed and then lay flat to dry. Shipping is via USPS, so after placing your order, please allow 6-12 days for it to show up at your doorstep. This gives me to time to handmake the item to ensure it’s perfect, and it allows shipping time for USPS. 

If you (or your dog) has a bandana addiction, please consider purchasing this koala dog bandana. Not only are you helping by allowing me to donate to WIRES, but you’re also spreading awareness everytime someone sees your dog in this bandana. 

If you have any questions, feel free to email me at alix@fetchformehuman.com

You can go directly to my Shop and the koala dog bandana by clicking here, or you can click on the Shop button at the top of the page.

I seriously can’t thank you enough – first for taking the time to read this, but secondly, by supporting me as I launch a new store for the reactive dogs of the world and for supporting me in helping a good cause!

Australia needs all the help they can get. Let’s all continue to keep the wildlife, victims, firefighters, and everyone else in our thoughts and #prayforAustralia.


Ready, Set, Fetch! – The Podcast for Reactive Dog Owners

Ready, Set, Fetch! – The Podcast for Reactive Dog Owners

So, first off, I just want to thank you so much for listening. Obviously you can tell that this is episode number 1, so this is the first time I’m ever doing a podcast. So I hope you’ll stick with me through all these first episodes as I learn all the quirks and things that you have to do when you are getting my voice into your earbuds.

So anyway, today I just want to talk about what this podcast is and set some groundwork and some expectations. So this podcast is going to discuss anything and everything about dogs, but it’s specifically going to talk about reactive dogs. We’ll discuss everything from training dogs to traveling with dogs to topics like general health and wellness and so much more. So while there are some other dog specific podcasts out there, there actually aren’t any solely for reactive dogs and their owners. So that’s why I’m here, and that’s why I’m doing this. I’m here to support and help all the reactive dogs and all the reactive dog owners out there. So whether you’re a reactive dog owner or dog trainer or maybe you have a pretty friendly and stable dog, there’s still going to be something in each episode for everyone to learn from.

So what is a reactive dog? A reactive dog is simply one that overreacts to a normal stimuli, but I’m here to tell you how to change that behavior so you feel more confident walking your dog. I’m also here to tell you that everything is going to be okay, I promise.

Now, I have a few goals for this podcast. The first one is that I want to empower you to feel more knowledgeable and confident getting outside with your dog. Having a reactive dog is not a death sentence. It doesn’t mean that you need to stay cooped up inside. But, it’s mentally and emotionally tough on the owner, and I get that because I have a reactive dog. There is a struggle. You often feel embarrassed and ashamed, and sometimes you even feel stupid or terrified. I don’t want that for you. We’ve been working and training for over 7 years now, so I want to help you. I want you to feel confident working with your dog, and I want you feel more confident walking your dog.

The second goal is that I want to create a supportive and positive reactive dog community, because it’s already a struggle owning a reactive dog. One of the most important things I’ve learned is that you have to find your tribe, and you have to find your people.

The third goal is that I want to educate you and spread awareness. Reactive dogs are not bad dogs at all. There’s a famous quote that says, “Your dog isn’t giving you a hard time, he’s having a hard time.” and that is absolutely one thousand percent true. We’ll cover everything from walking your dog without him barking and lunging to trimming his nails to muzzle training to crate training to general traveling tips and tricks and actual dog tricks like high five. And really, just all of the things.

So while there are other podcasts geared towards the easier dogs, I’m here for the reactive dogs and the reactive dog owners and the reactive dog trainers. I’m here to spread awareness and education, and most importantly, I’m here to support you. Really. No one is talking about the mental and emotional aspect of owning a reactive dog, and I’m here to help with that. Since this podcast covers anything and everything about having a reactive dog, that includes your end of the leash as well.

So I hope you’ll join me in the next episode, and I hope we can navigate this world as reactive dog owners together. Because if there is anything I’ve learned, it’s that reactive dog owners need to find their support system. So I’m here for it, and I’m here for you.

Thank you so much for listening. Until next time. Bye guys!

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Stop Using Aversives in Dog Training

Stop Using Aversives in Dog Training

Last Wednesday night, my husband and I took the dogs for a walk at our local park. This is a pretty busy little park. There are lots of families with children, the occasional dogs, and the fun part – there are about a million squirrels and geese. Even though it’s so busy, there is plenty of open area to move off to the side to give Buster space, so I actually really like going here to work on training. 

So we did one lap around the trail with zero issues and decided to do a second since the weather was so nice. When we started the second lap, I noticed a man standing with a leash wrapped over his should. I immediately started looking for a dog but didn’t see one. We walked a little bit further, and sure enough – about 30 feet or so away from the man, the Shepherd mix was lying in a down stay. His back was to the owner/trainer’s back. 

I immediately gave plenty of space, and Buster passed him with no issues. As we were passing, I noticed he was wearing a shock collar. Right after we passed him, a squirrel ran out in front of Buster, and a kid nearby happened to scream at the same time too, so Buster let out a little alien scream. I didn’t care. I immediately got his attention back, and we kept on walking with lots of treats and happy talk. 

That’s when I noticed the owner/trainer’s total Judgy McJudgerson look on his face and his little smirk as I was giving Buster treats. 

This annoyed me. Don’t get me wrong – I could not care less what he thinks, but it’s taken me awhile to get to that point. 

The point is – whatever happened to minding your own business? Whatever happened to keeping things to yourself? Whatever happened to just leaving people alone? 

I wonder how often this man sees other people using treats and snickers at them. I wonder if he does it to someone new in their training journey, and I wonder if he makes them feel like crap. 

So, we walked by him, and then noticed him later on the very outside perimeter of the park walking the dog, still off leash. 

I’ll give the owner/trainer kudos – the dog didn’t move while he was in a down stay and we walked past. But – the dog didn’t look happy. He was visibly stressed. His ears were pinned back as far as they could go, and he there were a couple of small whale-eye movements. 

I immerse myself in positive reinforcement based dog training. All of the Facebook groups I partake in are R+. Of course, all of the books I read are R+. Sometimes I get so surrounded by that positive bubble, that I forget that R+ is unfortunately, not that common. There are so many people who have not heard of R+ training yet, and there are even more people who have heard of it, don’t understand it, mock it, and then slap an e-collar on their dog. This makes me sad. 

Admittedly, there are just a small handful of e-collar trainers that I do follow on social media, but only because they are killing it at the social media game. I try to learn from them to see what social media strategies and marketing is working, but that’s the only reason I follow them. And then, there are the occasional things that pop up in my feed because the Google gods think it’s something I want to see. The other day, I came across a Pug wearing a prong collar – A PUG! I felt as if I had just witnessed a car accident with the car going up in flames. Why on earth would anyone ever think it’s a good idea to put a prong collar on a breed that already a) really doesn’t even have a neck and b) already has a compromised respiratory system by design. 

But of course, these trainers are good at social media, and they do post videos. I’ll often see just a few seconds of their videos. Do you know what their videos are always show though? A dog in a down stay, usually on a station/bed/platform. Those videos truthfully make up 95% of their videos. That’s it.

 You guys – there is SO MUCH MORE to dog training than a down stay. Is it important? Yes. Is it the most important thing? Honestly, I don’t think so. I’m also going to insert my totally controversial opinion here – down stays are actually very easy to teach. In my opinion, it’s boring and repetitive, but it’s easy.

So honestly, it breaks my heart a little when I think about how popular e-collar training is, and how those dogs are primarily taught to down stay. Where’s the fun? Where is the relationship? What about the games? A relationship between a dog and their owner is so much more than a fabulous down stay. Sure, with a good down stay, maybe the owner can take the dogs to cafe’s more, but are they really? And then what – the dog just lies there. 

I want to see more interaction between owners and their dogs. You are the only thing your dog has, and your dog wants to interact with you. 

So all in all, we had a great walk with zero issues, but it made me think of these things that made me a little sad. 

I really hope positive reinforcement becomes the norm sooner than later. In fact, let me leave you with just a coupel of fun facts about e-collars to ponder: 

1. They are on their way to being banned throughout all of England. They are already banned in some places, like Whales. 

That should speak volumes to you. If an entire country is banning a device, there is a a valid and good reason. We also know that they are way ahead of the United States in a variety of things, so why can’t we learn from them? 

I mean, to flip the script – I often hear people complain that the United States is stupid for having the legal drinking age set to 21 when it’s 18 in most other places. So, if we wish the United States would follow the lead of those other progressive places on that topic, why can’t we follow the lead with something as simple as dog training? 

2. At my day job, I work with contract workig dogs that serve on government contracts for the federal government. These are Belgian Malinois, Dutch Shepherds, German Shepherds, German Shorthaired Pointers, etc. None of them are trained with e-collars. 

I really wish the United states would ban e-collars, but I’m not sure that will ever happen. I just hope R+ becomes the norm soon enough, and the best way is to lead by example and keep spreading the message!


How do you train your dog, and what’s your favorite thing to train? 

5 Tips for Camping with Dogs

5 Tips for Camping with Dogs

We’ve been camping recently, and I’ve fallen back in love with it. There is something pretty magical about just being stuck in the woods in silence for hours on end and camping with dogs. Plus, who doesn’t love a good campfire and s’more?! I’ll admit, at first, I was worried what Buster would do. Was he going to bark at every single sound? If our campsite was next to people, was he going to bark at them nonstop? Oh god, what if they had a dog?

 As per usual, my fears were all for nothing. So, let this be a gentle reminder, stop worrying about things you don’t know or have no control over! Sure, take time to educate and prepare yourself, but stop stressing and worrying! Long story short – Buster loves to camp! We went a few weekends ago and were at a campground with campsites quite close to each other. We had people all around us, and we had a pretty loud dog directly across from us. Buster didn’t care! He seemed so genuinely happy to be camping! He was so relaxed that his usual triggers truly weren’t bothering him.

 Then it occurred to me, I think camping may actually be the best activity for reactive dogs! Think about it – you’re relatively secluded (especially if you follow my tip in #1). You’ve likely been exercising more, because typically when you camp, you are also walking/hiking a good bit, so your dog is likely more tired. Because you’re out in the wide open, while your dog may be interested in all the sights and smells, they may be less apt to react simply due to the fact that they are less on edge from a) being tired from the exercise and b) being out in the great outdoors! There are studies about how being outside is hugely beneficial for people, so I’m pretty sure it’s the same for dogs.

Now that we’ve gone over the fact that camping may actually be the best activity for reactive dogs, here are my tips for camping with your reactive dog. 


  1. choose the appropriate location

    There are tons of places you can camp these days. Your options range from national parks to state parks to campgrounds and more! But, they are all set up quite differently. In my experience, national and state forests are the most remote. For example, this weekend we camped at Green Ridge State Forest in Flintstone, MD. At our particular campsite, our closest neighbor was about a mile away. Our campsite was also down a fairly rough road that I’m pretty sure only an SUV or truck could go down, unless you wanted to scrape up the bottom of a car. Of course, this is primitive camping at its best. There are no facilities. The closest store is about 20 minutes away.

    Now, on the other hand, state parks typically tend to be more developed. The campsites are on a true campground. Each venue will differ, but in general, your neighbor is relatively close. Thank god for the trees for privacy right?! While these still may be primitive, there are usually full bathrooms and other facilities (sometimes a lodge with vending machines and sometimes even a restaurant!) somewhere in the state park. There are also usually developed recretion areas – like little lake or river beaches, large playgrounds, and even golf courses or shooting ranges.

     While most venues have their maps online, it can still be challenging to determine the exact distance you are to your neighbor or what the road is like to your campground. I recommend doing a quick Google search and seeing what other reviews say about the place. Other than that, going with the flow and figuring out how to make your campsite work for you is just part of the adventure that is camping with dogs!

     With good management techniques, a reactive dog could easily camp at either kind of venue; however, clearly you are likely to experience more triggers at a more established campground like a state park. I personally prefer camping more remotely. When I’m camping, I don’t really want to see or hear people at all. I just want to be in the woods.


  2. exercise your dog

    Part of the fun of camping is that you should be walking and hiking to do some sightseeing! When you’re doing this, make sure you take your dog with you! I know you want to sit down by the campfire eating s’mores, so exercise your dog during the day so that at night he will happily lay by your feet by the fire. Even though this may be a little mini vacation for you, you still need to get your exercise in!


  3. bring a dog run

    You’ll need to be able to secure your dog while you’re setting up and tearing down camp, so make sure you have some sort of dog run. It’s a pain in the butt to constantly hold a dog leash, and you’ll likely need to keep the doors of your vehicle open to unload, so you can’t put him there. The dog run also allows him to check out and smell the area safely while you can sit by the fire!

     There are all sorts of ways to use a dog run. I’ve used a long line through a cargo hook on my SUV, and some vehicles even have external hooks you could use. You could also get one of the dog runs that you screw into the ground (although personally, those terrify me, and I’m afraid of the dog pulling them up.) My personal favorite (and maybe even the cheapest) is to buy 50’ of paracord, 2 eye hooks, and a carabiner. Tie the eye hooks on the ends of the paracord. Taughtly string the paracord between 2-3 trees and secure with the hooks. Place the carabiner on the line and hook your dog’s leash handle through the carabiner. Now your dog can effortlessly glide along the run! Dogs tend to get tangled way less using this method since their leash is hanging pretty vertical in a tight manner. Some companies sell readymade dog runs like this, but they can cost upwards of $60!



    We’ve been over this time and time again, but chewing helps dogs to release energy, and it makes them calmer. Buster chews on his West Paw Hurley bone every single night, and he has for about 5 years now! (1 bone lasts about 4 months, so yes, every 4 months or so I really do buy a new bone.) I absolutely see a difference in his demeanor before he chews and once he is done. He is much calmer after chewing, even if he’s only chewed for 10-15 minutes. So make sure you bring some sort of chew with you! You could bring a toy they like, or even something like a bully stick.


  5. Bring some music!

    I love listening to the sounds of nature, but sometimes, those sounds can be scary for dogs. Reactive dogs that are highly sensitive to the environment and environmental triggers may be more apt to bark at things like limbs falling. Music can cover those subtle sounds, so your dog is less on edge. Plus who doesn’t love good music while eating s’mores?

So now that you’re well prepared with 5 tips for camping with dogs, tell me in the comments – do you take your dog camping? Is your dog reactive? What’s your biggest fear about camping with a reactive dog?

 I really hope you’ll utilize these tips to help you feel better about getting out and about and maybe even trying a one night camping trip with your dog!

7 Reasons to Stop Letting Your Dog Off Leash

7 Reasons to Stop Letting Your Dog Off Leash

Acadia National Park in Maine holds a special place in my heart, as it probably does for anyone that has been there. It is simply one of the most gorgeous places in the US, and it offers something for everyone – from easy to difficult hikes, rocky beaches to sandy beaches, and even a 27 mile scenic loop drive to the summit of Cadillac Mountain for the best pictures.

In the off season, Acadia feels like a secluded getaway, and you maybe run into a handful of people. In prime travel season (the summer months), it is packed, and you can barely stand to get a picture without bumping shoulders with someone. Acadia sees over 3 million visitors per year. 

Dogs are allowed in the park but must be attached on a 6 foot leash. There are some difficult trails and some beaches, along with a few other spots, that do have restrictions and where dogs cannot go. All of those details can be found here. 

However, there have been 3 instances this past week of visitors being bitten by off leash dogs.

While I’ve been lucky enough to not run into that issue at Acadia, I have had many issues with off leash dogs on several hikes around my home. 

Let me be clear – people with off leash dogs are ruining it for everyone. Not only are they ruining the experience for anyone they may directly come in contact with, but they are also potentially ruining it for everyone in the future. Most parks have leash laws. By violating those leash laws, they are risking these places to no longer allow dogs in the future.



Why Does your dog need to be off leash?

He doesn’t.



There are no ifs, ands, or buts. I assure you – your dog DOES NOT have some intrinsic requirement to be off leash. Your dog is not getting some magical benefit of simply being free of a 6 foot leash for a couple hours that is worth breaking the law, ruining the visit for all of the other visitors, and potentially worth getting in an altercation or having a police report filed as a result of said altercation.

The main argument is that the dogs get “so much more exercise off leash,” and that they’re just “so much happier” running off leash. Let me assure you, your dog is getting plenty of exercise on a 6 foot leash. Just because he is attached to a 6 foot leash does not mean he is not getting a cardiovascular workout, because he is.  

7 Reasons to not let your dog off leash

  1. THE LAW
    • MOST places require dogs to be on a 6 foot leash. It is the law. When parks continue to get unhappy visitors due to those breaking the law or continued reports of dog bites from off leash dogs, it is a very real possibility that they will start banning dogs altogether. Then what are you going to do, and where are you going to go?
  2. OTHER dogs, children, people
    • I know we are living in the most self-absorbed and selfish time of history. People care more about themselves than anyone or anything. But, for just a couple of hours, can’t you do better? Can’t you be a better person than the majority of people? Can’t you care just the tiniest bit about others? There may be other dogs on the trail that don’t like dogs. There may be children who have been attacked and are terrified of dogs. There may be people who don’t like dogs, or elderly people who may fall if your dog bumps into them accidentally.
  3. wildlife
    • Wildlife is everywhere. Bears, coyotes, snakes, porcupines, etc. can all do serious damage to your dog if your dog gets into a scuffle. Plus, what about the smaller wildlife – baby birds and rabbits – will your dog leave those alone or will they incite your dog’s prey drive which may result in a dead animal?
  4. unsafe water
    • Most dogs, especially during a long and hot hike, will naturally get into any body of water they see. I’m sure you’ve seen the news stories all over the country recently, but there are serious concerns of blue-green algae in water. It can be in ponds, lakes, and rivers. The water can even look clear, but it unfortunately could still be contaminated. There’s just no way to know. Exposure to this blue-green algae can easily kill your dog in about an hour. In many parts of the country, there are also serious concerns of leptospirosis. This is a bacteria also found in standing water, which can be treatable if treated quickly, but otherwise, it too can be fatal.
  5. does your dog really have a reliable recall?
    • I have come across some parks that have signs stating something to the effect of, “Dogs must be on leash unless under direct voice control at all times.” This essentially means your dog can be off leash, as long as you can recall him. But, can you really recall him? Can you recall him off of a deer, bear, snake, or squirrel? Can you recall him off the family you may be passing that’s all eating delicious smelling beef jerky? Can you recall him off the excitable dog approaching who is on a leash? Most people like to think they their dog has a fabulous recall, but unfortunately, that is not the truth. Just because your dog has a great recall at home does not mean he will have a great recall on the trail with so many more exciting sights and smells.
  6. tick borne diseases
    • If your dog is off leash, he is likely to be traipsing through the tall grasses off the trail. While ticks are naturally a concern anytime you go outdoors, their prime environment is in those tall bushy grasses. So while you may not be seeing any ticks on the well maintained trail, your dog could be picking up tons in those tall grasses. Is a 2 hour off leash walk really worth a lifetime of tick borne disease?
    • Again, a lot of parks have a very specific “dog must be attached to a 6 foot leash” rule. But, for parks that don’t have that rule, you can always use a long line. You can find long lines that range from 8 feet to 50 feet long! With the use of a long line, your dog has more room to roam, but is still connected to you, so you don’t have to worry about everything else I’ve just listed here. My personal favorite long lines are the brahma long lines from Bold Lead Designs.

If you’ve read this and for some reason, you still think your dog just absolutely needs to be off leash, then you need to find a place that explicitly allows dogs off leash. These places do exist, so do some research! There are many smaller secluded areas in larger parks off of the trails that are explicitly off leash friendly. You could also consider just taking your dog to a local dog park (try going at odd hours to avoid others if you wish).

Do you let your dog off leash? What do you do to ensure you follow the law and don’t bother other visitors? What about those of you who have been rushed by off leash dogs? Tell me about your experience in the comments below!


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